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How do you decide what’s best for you to do?

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So often we labor under the false belief that our decisions are a this or that sort of thing…

Most of the time, that’s not the case at all. Most of the time, the best decision is not whether to choose “this” OR “that” but to try to find the possibilities where “this” AND “that” exist.

Get creative.

Let your mid explore any possibility (even if it feels unrealistic right now) where this and that co-exist.

Sometimes you’ll find ways where the options your considering actually can occur fully, other times you’ll uncover a hybrid that meets your needs. And sometimes, even after this exercise, you’ll decide that one vs the other is the best choice for you after all.

Whatever you end up choosing, when you’ve examined ALL the possibilities in this way, you’ll feel more confident and likely be getting a whole lot more of what you want.

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I've been guiding people through life's toughest transitions—like career shifts, evolving relationships, retirement, grief, and loss—long before 'life coaching' became a household term.

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